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For Birthmothers: The Pros and Cons of Adoption

a birthmother considering the pros and cons of adoptionFacing an unplanned pregnancy is a difficult and highly emotional time for any woman. Before making a final decision on how to handle it, you should research every option there is. Arming yourself with information is crucial, so you need to be well-informed regarding your future and the future of your unborn baby.

All in all, choosing the right path for your baby and yourself depends on having correct information. Consider every decision carefully, before choosing how to act. If you’re thinking about placing your baby for adoption, here are some of the pros and cons of adoption.

Pros of Adoption

There are distinctions between open, closed, and semi-open adoption types. These types are based on the desired level of openness. Before making a decision on the type of adoption that’s best for you and your child, do research about each type and write down your opinions. Also consider pros and cons of adoption itself since this is important in order to find out if adoption is the right path for you.

Some pros of an adoption are:

  • Some adoption types allow you to remain in contact with your child and the adoptive parents after the adoption. For many women, this is considered a pro, especially if you’re curious about your child’s life after the adoption. Post-adoption stress and grief could be extremely hard and some birthmothers understand themselves enough to know that they would benefit from some form of open adoption. On the other hand, some women feel that having contact with their baby or the adoptive parents after the adoption would simply be too difficult for them, and a closed adoption is a good option for them. The pro in this situation is that there is flexibility in an adoption plan, and it’s all based on what you want.
  • Dealing with an unplanned pregnancy is never easy or painless. Many women feel that adoption is the best option for them because, while it certainly is difficult, it may not be quite as difficult as the other options.
  • You can change someone’s life and your own too if you place your baby up for an adoption. In an adoption process, the child receives a loving and caring home and in the end, that’s what truly matters. If you choose an adoption, you’ll know forever how that’s an act of pure love and you can feel good in the knowledge that you helped a family achieve their dreams of parenthood.

Cons of Adoption

There are also some cons of an adoption:

  • Psychological issues that can appear after the adoption often scare birthmothers the most. This is why a self-reflection is highly important before you make any decisions. Try to visualize the situations that scare you and talk about it with someone you trust. You may be able to overcome those fears.
  • Information restrictions in some adoption types can have negative effects, especially for the children since they may feel like there is one piece of their background missing. This can sometimes cause emotional problems or even a need to search for their birthparents in the future.
  • The adoption process can be long and challenging, but this highly depends on laws in your state. Before deciding on adoption, explore everything you can about the process and the adoption laws of your state.

The adoption professionals at Angel Adoption will be happy to help you answer any of your questions and help you make your adoption decision. Give us a call or send us a message anytime day or night. We are always here for you, and we care about helping you and your baby!