dear expectant mother
Even without having met you, we know you are courageous, selfless, and undeniably strong. One of our aunts faced the same difficult decision you are facing. She was a tough, sweet, intelligent person and a creative force in our family. She designed all of the flowers for our wedding by hand, piecing together bouquets, boutonnieres, and centerpieces with love. We feel as though she is with us now, watching over us and over you, making sure you never feel alone and you are always treated with kindness and care.
We fell in love because we noticed we both went out of our way to treat everyone we met—no matter who they were—with respect and kindness. During our first five years as a couple, we didn’t have a lot of money, but we were always happy. This taught us what really matters: our love for each other and our family. We would raise your child to see the value in every person they meet. We would teach him to appreciate the simple things in life and that homemade is always best. We would give him time to play, explore, and enjoy life. We would laugh together—a lot! We would spend as much time as possible at family dinners, birthday celebrations, pancake breakfasts, and backyard gatherings with nearby cousins, aunts and uncles, grandparents, and pets so he is always surrounded by layers of love.
As his parents, the center of that fold, we would love him unconditionally and always.
Melissa is a sixth grade English teacher and a first and second grade Spanish teacher at a charter school near our home. Her school is like a little family, and she pours her creativity into the classroom and activities the kids enjoy, including the school musicals and gardening club. Melissa loves to cook. Michael is the operations manager for a small, family-owned company. Two years ago, he moved his office into our home and has found a balance that allows him to enjoy being an avid baseball fan and softball player. He plays in two local softball leagues with his friends and has been doing so for almost two decades! Most of his friends bring their kids to the games, and we always thought it would be fun to bring our own kids one day too.
Our Home & Pets
We live in a Cape Cod-style, four-bedroom house on a court in a quiet village in Illinois that is filled with children. The elementary school is a couple of blocks down the street, and we are within walking distance of three local playgrounds, the library, and the forest preserve. We moved here in 2018, and our neighbors have been so welcoming and kind. We all look out for each other, exchange baked goods, shovel each other’s driveways, mow lawns when someone is sick or out of town, and stop in the court to chat and catch up. We also leave flowers on doorsteps and goodies in mailboxes.
Our Extended Family
Michael often lends a helping hand to his parents, who live in a nearby town. In exchange, his dad helps us with our garden and his mom cooks us delicious meals for Sunday dinners. We spend magical Christmas Eve nights with his family, staying up late to watch Harry Potter movies around the tree. We are also fortunate to live within about ten minutes of his sister’s family and his brother’s family. We see them weekly.
Melissa’s parents have a nearby cabin on a lake we visit to grill on the deck, go on the pontoon boat, and tell stories by the fire with aunts, uncles, and cousins. During the winter, we gather around the fireplace and go for winter walks. At the lake, we connect with Melissa’s siblings and spouses and our four nieces from Colorado. About once a year, we visit Michael’s brother, who lives in Texas with his wife and their children. Everyone is thrilled with our announcement of planning to adopt and cannot wait to welcome another little one into our big, boisterous, and loving family.
What Led Us To Adoption
Michael has always wanted to be a father, and upon meeting him over twelve years ago, Melissa opened her mind to becoming a mother. We saved money to get married and move into a house, and we have been trying to get pregnant since 2016. We have undergone fertility testing and explored treatments, but Melissa has a thyroid autoimmune condition that makes it difficult to become pregnant. We have loved being supportive and fun in our roles as aunt and uncle, but in many ways, being around our nieces and nephew only makes us want our own children even more. We were very excited when we learned about Angel Adoption, and everything about it just seemed right.
|Education||MA, English Literature|
|Favorite Hobby||Gardening, cooking|
|Favorite Music Group||Elephant Revival|
|Favorite Book||Love in the Time of Cholera|
|Favorite Activity||Bundling for long winter hikes and then making a fire and a hot meal when we get home|
|Favorite Tradition||Designing the mantle for each season. It is the first thing people see when they walk into our home, and I love to make it reflect the time of year in a welcoming and fun way.|
|Favorite Animal||Blue heron|
|Dream Vacation||Eating our way through the Southern states to sample different local foods and explore beautiful places|
|Education||BA, Business Administration|
|Favorite Food||Portillo’s Chicago-style hot dogs|
|Favorite Hobby||Playing softball, collecting Funko Pop figures|
|Favorite Music Group||Outkast|
|Favorite Book||Tortilla Flat|
|Favorite Activity||Pumpkin carving contest with my siblings (which I always claim to win)|
|Favorite Tradition||Decorating the Christmas tree|
|Dream Vacation||Driving across the country in an Airstream trailer to take an epic road trip, especially through the Southwest and California|
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Each adoptive parent has been thoroughly evaluated through a home study course conducted by a licensed agency. A completed home study means the family is emotionally, physically, and financially ready to adopt a baby.
The home study process includes assessments of each parent’s character, marital stability, financial situation, lifestyle, and medical history. The agency also runs background checks to verify there is no record of criminal activity or child abuse. In addition, a social worker will inspect the family’s home to ensure it is a safe environment for a child.
Furthermore, Angel Adoption requires each family to be educated on adopting and parenting. After a baby has been placed with the adoptive family, a social worker will continue to monitor and supervise the family. We go to great lengths to make sure all the families you have to choose from are going to be excellent parents for your baby!Return to Waiting Families