dear expectant mother
Dear Expectant Mother,
If we could sit across from you today, we’d want to start by saying thank you– for your strength, for your love, and for even considering us as a part of your baby’s story. We can’t begin to imagine all that you are carrying at this moment, but we admire your courage and want you to know how much respect and gratitude we feel toward you.
Adoption has always been part of our path to parenthood, and we’ve spent many years imagining what it would be like to share our lives with a child. As a same-sex couple, we know that the chance to grow our family comes through an act of extraordinary love and bravery, and we will never take that for granted.
We are fun-loving, adventurous, and family-centered. We love to travel, explore new foods, spend time with our families, and be outdoors with our two dogs, Arlo and Bullet. But the moments we look forward to most are the everyday ones – reading bedtime stories, cooking dinner together, holiday traditions, laughter that fills our home, and celebrating milestones both big and small. We promise to nurture your child’s unique story, to help them grow into whoever they are meant to be, and to surround them with unconditional love, joy, and opportunity.
Whatever you decide, we are deeply grateful that you took the time to learn about us. Should you choose us, we will honor this incredible gift by cherishing your child with our whole hearts.
With love and gratitude,
Adrian and Robert
Our Love Story
We love how our personalities complement and inspire one another daily. Adrian admires Rob’s incredible sense of humor and his unwavering commitment. When Rob sets his mind to something, he pursues it with determination and focus, overcoming any challenge along the way. His drive and reliability create a strong foundation in both our relationship and our shared dreams of parenthood.
Rob loves Adrian’s outgoing and charismatic nature, his ability to connect with others, and his strong advocate mentality. Adrian’s passion for standing up for what is right and supporting others inspires Rob every day.
Together, we share a love of travel, food, music, and culture, which leads to endless opportunities for new experiences and adventures. These shared passions fuel our curiosity, joy, and sense of wonder, qualities we hope to share with a future child. Our relationship is built on mutual respect, laughter, and a deep partnership, and we can’t wait to bring those values into our family.
Our Home & Neighborhood
Our home is a bright, open split-level with the kitchen, dining area, and living room flowing together – perfect for cooking, homework, movie nights, and family time. Outside, our one-acre backyard gives our dogs space to run, and Adrian enjoys gardening and caring for our chickens. We look forward to adding a swingset, playing sports, and spending time outdoors as a family.
We live in a family-friendly community with a neighborhood elementary school, parks, and walking trails just a short walk away. A nearby recreation center offers activities for all ages, and the city center - only a short drive away - features attractions like a large aquarium. Together, our home and community provide a safe, fun, and nurturing place for a child to grow and explore.
Our Family & Friends
Family and friends are at the heart of our lives, and a future child will be surrounded by a loving, supportive community. Rob’s parents and brother live just minutes away, and we see them often for dinners, celebrations, and everyday moments. Adrian’s family, about ninety minutes south, joins us several times a year for family dinners, baseball games, or vacations to Disney World, the beach, or the mountains.
We are already proud uncles to two nephews, one five years old and one just a few months old, and we cherish every moment spent with them. Your child will grow up alongside cousins, playmates, and friends, forming bonds that will last a lifetime.
We treasure family traditions, especially around the holidays. One favorite tradition is the Saran Wrap ball game, where everyone struggles to unwrap layers of plastic wrap using oven mitts to uncover treats and candies, always ending in a home full of laughter.
Adrian’s family brings Southern roots from Georgia and Kentucky, while Rob’s Italian and Filipino family adds a large, loving extended network. Combined with our circle of friends, your child will grow up in a joyful, welcoming community filled with love, fun, and connection.
Our Cultural Heritage
We share core values that guide our lives and how we will raise a family: fairness, justice, kindness, and respect. Treating others as we wish to be treated is central to us, and daily kindnesses go a long way.
Adrian is Southern, while Rob is from New Jersey with Italian and Filipino roots. Food is central to our family, and shared meals are filled with conversation, laughter, and connection. Family dinners, holidays, and traditions keep us close and grounded.
If a child that joins our family comes from a different culture, we will embrace it, learning and integrating their culture into our family life. We want them to feel proud, seen, and respected, with space to honor their heritage in a loving, inclusive home.
Fun Facts
About Adrian
| Occupation | Senior Strategy & Transformation Consultant |
|---|---|
| Education | Master’s |
| Race | Caucasian |
| Favorite Food | Sushi, Empanadas, Chicken Parmigiana, Fried Chicken |
| Favorite Hobby | Photography, Gardening, Chicken tending, Gym |
| Favorite Movie | Babel |
| Favorite Sport | Soccer, Tennis, Swimming, Pickleball |
| Favorite Holiday | Christmas |
| Favorite Music Group | Beyonce, Lady Gaga, Kesha, Doechi, Kendrick Lamar, Hozier |
| Favorite TV Show | Grey’s Anatomy |
| Favorite Book | The Heaven & Earth Grocery Store |
| Favorite Subject in School | Social Studies |
| Favorite Tradition | Putting the Christmas tree and decorations up right after Thanksgiving |
| Dream Vacation | 1 Month in SE Asia |
About Robert
| Occupation | General Manager |
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| Education | Bachelor's |
| Race | Caucasian/Pacific Islander |
| Favorite Food | Italian, Mexican, Mediterranean |
| Favorite Hobby | Running, Gym, Cooking, Bartending |
| Favorite Movie | Harry Potter series |
| Favorite Sport | Tennis, Baseball, Pickleball, Running |
| Favorite Holiday | Halloween |
| Favorite Music Group | Lady Gaga, House, Dance Pop, Dance Remixes, Taylor Swift |
| Favorite TV Show | Great British Bakeoff |
| Favorite Book | Setting the Table |
| Favorite Subject in School | Math & Physics |
| Favorite Tradition | Any family gatherings around the holidays. |
| Dream Vacation | African Safari |
Contact Adrian & Robert
Choose a Family for
Your Baby With Confidence
As you browse our list of hopeful adoptive parents, you can feel confident in knowing that all of the adoptive families working with Angel Adoption are prepared to offer your baby a safe, stable, and loving environment along with a wealth of opportunities for a happy and fulfilling life.
Each adoptive parent has been thoroughly evaluated through a home study course conducted by a licensed agency. A completed home study means the family is emotionally, physically, and financially ready to adopt a baby.
The home study process includes assessments of each parent’s character, marital stability, financial situation, lifestyle, and medical history. The agency also runs background checks to verify there is no record of criminal activity or child abuse. In addition, a social worker will inspect the family’s home to ensure it is a safe environment for a child.
Furthermore, Angel Adoption requires each family to be educated on adopting and parenting. After a baby has been placed with the adoptive family, a social worker will continue to monitor and supervise the family. We go to great lengths to make sure all the families you have to choose from are going to be excellent parents for your baby!
Not sure how to start? See our How to Choose an Adoptive Family resource page.
If you need more help, you’re always welcome to contact us any time!