Melissa & Brendan
Are Hoping to Adopt a Baby
dear expectant mother
Thank you for taking the time to read our letter and for considering us during such a deeply personal moment in your life. Our journey to adoption has been shaped by both hope and heartbreak. After experiencing infertility and pregnancy loss, we found ourselves grieving the family we once imagined while learning to open our hearts in new ways. Through that process, adoption became a path forward—one grounded in love, intention, and deep respect for the strength it takes to consider this choice. We are profoundly grateful for the care and thought you are putting into making the best decision for your baby.
As we move through this process, we do so with humility and hope. Adoption, to us, is rooted in compassion, honesty, and connection. We believe a child’s story begins long before they enter our home, and we are committed to honoring that story fully. If we are chosen to parent your baby, they would grow up knowing how deeply they are loved and how much courage and selflessness shaped their beginning. You would always be spoken of with respect and gratitude.
We are hopeful about the future and the possibility of building our family through adoption, while also understanding that this is your decision alone. No matter what you choose, we are thankful for your consideration and for the love that is evident in every step you are taking. We wish you peace, clarity, and comfort as you move forward.
Our Love Story
Our love story began many years ago in an unexpected way, when Melissa’s best friend married Brendan’s cousin. Although we were both part of the wedding, we didn’t know each other well at the time, especially since Brendan was living out of state. Over the years, Melissa grew very close to Brendan’s family. Through that friendship we would occasionally see each other at family gatherings.
About twelve years ago, everything changed when we, along with several family members, decided to run a 5K together. This shared experience sparked a deeper connection, and we soon began dating. We quickly realized that what we were building was rooted not only in love, but in a genuine friendship, shared values, and mutual respect.
As our relationship grew, Brendan made the decision to move back to his hometown so we could build our life close to family. We were married in 2019 and have been intentionally building a strong, supportive life together ever since—one grounded in love, commitment, and the importance of family.
Our Home & Neighborhood
Our Family & Friends
Our Favorite Adventures
We always value experiences more than things and immerse ourselves in the places we visit, whether nearby or far away. Our first trip together was a hiking adventure in Arizona, which set the tone for how we enjoy exploring—actively, curiously, and side by side. Since then, we’ve spent many weekends discovering local parks and hiking trails.
We share a love of skiing and have been fortunate to ski in many places across the US. In warmer months, we enjoy time at the beach, both relaxing in the sand and exploring the water through activities like snorkeling. Bike riding is another favorite pastime, and each year we look forward to discovering new trails. We are avid sports fans and love attending games with family and friends. We cherish time spent boating on local rivers with our family. These adventures reflect the joyful, connected life we hope to share with a child.
Fun Facts
| Category | Melissa | Brendan |
|---|---|---|
| Occupation | Regional Sales Director | Psychologist |
| Education | Bachelors Degree | Doctoral Degree |
| Favorite Food | Pasta | Tacos |
| Hobby | Cooking and baking | Playing guitar and skiing |
| Sport | Football and Basketball | Hockey |
| Tradition | Christmas festivities | Annual lake family reunion |
| Vacation Spot | Skiing in Switzerland | Skiing in Austria |
| Holiday | Christmas | Thanksgiving |
| Movie | — | Empire Strikes Back |
| Music | Alanis Morissette | Dave Matthews Band |
| TV Show | The Pitt | Sportscenter |
| School Subject | Math | Psychology |
| Book | The Last Lecture | Lord of the Rings Trilogy |
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