dear expectant mother
We could not get pregnant no matter how hard we tried, so this baby, should you choose us, would be a blessing. We can’t say we have walked in your shoes but would like you to know we have nothing but admiration and respect for you and your journey. We are thankful you are hopefully considering blessing us. This can not be easy for you, and we thank you. You are a woman of courage even though it may not feel like it right now. We would be honored to be chosen as vessels to pour love out to your child. We have longed for this and want you to know you can entrust us with your baby.
We have built a marriage that will last, and we are ready to be parents. We are solid in our devotion to our faith, and we love and respect each other tenderly. We are kind, productive, upstanding, and authentic people who both came to the USA to study and work. The U.S. was home to us for over 20 years before we even met each other. California is home now, and we have built solid careers. We and our families are all excited about our adopting.
We look forward to showing you how much we care. We thank you for your consideration.
Warmly,
Mathias & Ndidi
About Us
We met on Match.com after we each finally decided we would try online dating. From our first date, we found we had so much in common with each of us having lived previously in Europe and now in California. We fundamentally have similar values of faith, family, friends, fun, and freedom. We love to travel and were both ready for a lifelong partner. We’ve been together since that first date, and what we have is solid. We’re easy spirits and are pretty easygoing. We both work in the pharma/biotech industry. Ndidi has some flexibility and can work from home, including flexible hours and so much unused vacation. Mathias works in the laboratory.
Our Home
We live in a new home in a lovely development in California. This family-friendly neighborhood is blocks from a park with a children’s play area and near many regional parks. We spend weekends hiking, going to the beach, or grilling on our patio. We are a fun family who enjoy traveling, exploring, having friends or neighbors over for potluck dinners, and taking part in church functions. We have fostered our own village. Ndidi typically manages the social calendar and fosters friendships with a number of women, some of whom are her childhood friends. Mathias is quieter and maintains deep lifelong connections too.
Our Extended Family
Mathias comes from Germany, and Ndidi is from Sierra Leone but her family now lives in the UK. We don’t have much family here in California; however, we have a chosen family of friends and a support system from church, all of whom are well aware of our journey and are excited for us. Our friends from church have had similar journeys, and we all intend to continue to support each other.
Once the baby arrives, we look forward to making a trip to Germany and England, where our parents will get to meet their new grandbaby. We are all excited and can’t wait to pass down our love for family and traditions. Ndidi’s father wants to teach his grandchild to play rugby, and Mathias’s parents can’t wait to teach their grandchild how to speak German. We can’t wait to travel with our new baby and show them the world.
We both also love holidays, especially Christmastime, and we look forward to spending our first Christmas with our baby, sharing with them all the Christmas traditions we enjoyed as children.
What Led Us To Adoption
We tried having a biological child, but nothing we did worked. It was hard at first, but we are people of faith and have prayed about this decision for some time now. We evaluated other avenues and are now intentional about adopting. We cannot wait to incorporate a child into our lives. We look forward to loving and serving them and seeing the world through their eyes. We each look forward to watching the other pour themself into motherhood and fatherhood. We look forward to increasing our family and cannot wait for this wonderful addition to our lives. We promise to be good parents as we teach this baby to follow their heart and live a passionate life.
Fun Facts
About Ndidi
| Occupation | Auditor |
|---|---|
| Education | Bachelor or Science |
| Race | African American |
| Favorite Food | Thai, Perunian (spicy) |
| Favorite Hobby | Hiking, traveling, dining out, writing |
| Favorite Sport | Soccer |
| Favorite Music Group | Sade |
| Favorite Book | A New Earth |
| Favorite Subject in School | Biology |
| Favorite Tradition | Christmas - trimming tree, tree lighting, cooking |
| Dream Vacation | Bali |
About Mathias
| Occupation | Scientist |
|---|---|
| Education | Ph.D. |
| Race | Caucasian |
| Favorite Food | Pasta dishes |
| Favorite Hobby | Hiking, traveling, dining out |
| Favorite Sport | Basketball |
| Favorite Music Group | Jazz |
| Favorite Book | Investment books |
| Favorite Subject in School | Anything with my hands |
| Favorite Tradition | Christmas - German sour beef |
| Dream Vacation | Belize |
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Your Baby With Confidence
As you browse our list of hopeful adoptive parents, you can feel confident in knowing that all of the adoptive families working with Angel Adoption are prepared to offer your baby a safe, stable, and loving environment along with a wealth of opportunities for a happy and fulfilling life.
Each adoptive parent has been thoroughly evaluated through a home study course conducted by a licensed agency. A completed home study means the family is emotionally, physically, and financially ready to adopt a baby.
The home study process includes assessments of each parent’s character, marital stability, financial situation, lifestyle, and medical history. The agency also runs background checks to verify there is no record of criminal activity or child abuse. In addition, a social worker will inspect the family’s home to ensure it is a safe environment for a child.
Furthermore, Angel Adoption requires each family to be educated on adopting and parenting. After a baby has been placed with the adoptive family, a social worker will continue to monitor and supervise the family. We go to great lengths to make sure all the families you have to choose from are going to be excellent parents for your baby!
Not sure how to start? See our How to Choose an Adoptive Family resource page.
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